Ian Hank

Ian Hank

Friday, April 29, 2011

Royal Wedding and A Knight for a Princess

The wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton was celebrated all over the world, including Madison, WI. The kids were able to dress up in their fancy wedding clothes for school and celebrate with tea and cookies. Ben had an oral book report that day, which he had to dress up for. Thankfully he had to wear nice clothes for that, which fit into the wedding dress up theme. Cami was excited to get out her hat and gloves and one of her dresses.

That night, Daddy escorted Cami to A Knight For A Princess at City Church. It is an opportunity for dad's to take their daughters out for a nice dinner and dancing, kind of like a prom for dads and daughters. Cami was looking forward to this all week!
Daddy brought his date flowers, which made her smile from ear to ear!
Cami spent a lot of time getting ready, making sure she looked perfect (even though daddy already thinks shes perfect)
They had dinner, played games, did crafts, and danced. They both had a wonderful time!

Thursday, April 28, 2011

Photo Essay: Korean Adoption

Thank you Yvonne for sharing this...



Since 1953 over 150,000 Korean children have been placed with adoptive families overseas. From 1987 to 1997 the yearly average dropped from 8,000 per year to 2,057 and in 2009 there were 1,050 children adopted by families in other countries. Jeanne Modderman turns her lens towards the compelling story of international adoption in Korea.

Between delivery and placing them with a foster family, babies usually spend their first few weeks in the adoption agency's nursery. The nurseries are usually crowded with a handful of caregivers to look after them.


A foster mother releases her foster child to her adoptive mother. After caring for these babies for the first months of their lives, it can be difficult, especially for first time foster mothers, to let them go.


One week after her delivery, Sae-Rong, 18, put her baby girl up for adoption. She was unaware of her pregnancy until 7 months in, when she noticed she had gained weight. With strong objections from her family to keep the baby and no support from her boyfriend's family, she made the decision, like many Korean unwed mothers, to put her baby up for adoption.

While staying at a home for unwed mothers, she wrote a letter to her baby, saying " When we were sending you off, I wanted to keep you in my arms. How could I be giving up my own flesh and blood? Please don't forget about me and please look for me."


After escaping North Korea and living in China for the past five years, Keum-Joo, 30, made it to South Korea. There she delivered a baby at an unwed mother's home in Pyeongtaek. With no family and little support, she chose to place her baby boy for adoption so that he might have a better life than she could provide.


Nick Breedlove stares out the window as he awaits the arrival of his adopted sister from S.Korea.

Laura and Paul Breedlove decided to adopt their first child, Nick, after they were unsuccessful conceiving their own children. Soon after, they applied to adopt their daughter Lily.

Laura arrives at Baltimore/Washington International airport with Lily. Laura spent two weeks visiting Korea before flying back home with her new daughter.

Korean adoptee, Jocelyn Schulken (far right) and her friends pose for a picture at their neighborhood playground.

Two dolls, one asian and one caucasian, lay on Jocelyn's bed.

The Schulken family make sure to talk about adoption and learn about Korean culture. Jocelyn is currently enrolled in Korean Culture Camp.

Jocelyn speaks on the phone to her grandmother as her mom stands by.


Allen Majors, an adoptee from Illinois, was one of the first babies adopted out of South Korea through the Holt International Adoption agency. On his visit to Seoul he continued searching for any birth family. Due to the lack of records and information he has had no luck.

Maria Hermann (right) is a bi-racial adoptee living in Massachusetts. On her first visit back to Korea, Maria visited the Pearl Buck International museum, one of the only agencies that found adoptive families for children of mixed race.

Daniel Gray is the creator of Seoul Eats, a popular food blog dedicated to Korean cuisine as well as the co-owner of O'ngo Food Communications, a culinary tourism company. Adopted when he was five, he returned to Korea to learn about his roots. He has successfully made his career and life in Korea.

Amy Ginther was adopted to New York in 1983. She has become increasingly involved in the expat theater community in the three years since she has lived in Seoul. She is also the creator and star of "Between", a one woman show about her adoption and identity.

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Mystery Babies

With a day off school matched with nice, warm (not freezing) weather, the kids headed outside to play. Ben and his friend, Josh, came upon 6 baby animals shortly after they finished lunch. The babies had not been there earlier. The kids were curious and excited to see these little babies. We watched them in the grass for a short time then called our neighbors over to see what the boys found. They brought over gloves so we could hold them and see them a little closer.

6 babies were born. 2 of them had already died, but 4 were full of energy, trying to walk and move around.
Ben was fascinated.

Ian wanted to keep them and bring them in the house.

Monday, April 25, 2011

Easter Weekend

We headed north to celebrate Easter with Justin's side of the family. We always enjoy our get togethers with them. We decided to break up the 5 hour drive each way and spend the night. We enjoyed our gathering at Aunt Sharon's, our night in the hotel, and Easter service at Sharon's church. After church on Sunday, we headed to Eau Claire to spend time with Dennis and Judy and kids. The kids always enjoy playing together even with the age gap.


The Easter Bunny found the kids in the hotel and left a surprise for each of them.

Outside St. Michael's (Sharon's Church) Easter morning
After a busy week, which included ALCS Spring Concert, Good Friday service, the insurance agent assessing hail damage (which includes needing a new roof, gutters, window casings, etc) and lots of running around then a trip to Minnesota, we were glad the kids had Monday off of school!

Saturday, April 16, 2011

Korean Culture Day

Justin working hard on his Hanji box

We attended Korean Culture Day which was put together by a college aged Korean adoptee and several friends from the UW Madison adoption group. The adults learned how to make Hanji boxes (decorative boxes made from special paper) and heard a panel of older Korean adoptees (college age or just graduated) share of their adoption experience followed by insight from a few of their adoptive parents. After the panels, we joined the children in learning how to make Mandoo (Korean Dumplings or Potstickers).

Panel of college age Korean adoptees share their experience of growing up, traveling back to Korea, and some meeting birth parents

Drum Playing
The finale was performances put on by the kids (they showed us different things they learned that day.) and then a few of the college helpers shared some of their talents as well. My favorite was a break dancing routine. The kids LOVED it and couldn't take their eyes off of the guy performing.

The younger kids enjoyed Korean Story time, song & dance time, and making a Korean Chonggo drum. Ben's group learned another type of Korean drum dance, participated in Korean follow-along dance videos, learned some beginning Korean phrases, and learned how to write their original Korean name. We all had a blast. After a very enjoyable morning, we headed to Panera with our friends, the Weber family, for a delicious lunch before they headed back to Milwaukee.

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Happy Birthday Ben!

8 years ago a little boy was born in Seoul, South Korea. God created him knowing that the woman who grew him inside her for 9 months would not be able to care for him. He also knew that half way around the world, a man and woman were longing to have a child. God knew that that little boy would be our son and that we would be his parents. We are so incredibly blessed to have him in our lives. We thank God that his birth mother chose life even knowing that she would not be able to raise him. Our little boy, who arrived in our arms when he was only 7 1/2 months old, is now 8 years old. He is a loving, kind, and smart boy who loves basketball, his brother and sister, and most of all, loves the Lord!
Happy Birthday Ben!

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Ben's birthday party


This year we told the kids that we were going to let them help plan their birthday party. We have a small budget and they would be able to help decide what they would like, as long as it fit in the budget. Anything left over, they could have. Ben took to this immediately when his birthday was coming close. He was excited to help find a fun, yet inexpensive way to celebrate. He thought of ideas like having friends over to play the Wii (fun, yet hard to do with more than 2 or 3 people) or have friends over to play outside (another great idea, but hard to do since weather in April is really unpredictable. I gave him the option of going to an Open Swim at the place they have swim lessons. We have several open swim passes that we received when we signed the kids up for lessons.
So, on April 7, along with lots of friends, we headed to swim to celebrate Ben's birthday. We were really fortunate to have the entire place to ourselves. The kids swam then enjoyed some pizza and cupcakes for dessert.

Ian loves the water
Ben is having a great time with his friends!

Time to open presents!
Everyone had a great time!